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Falling in love with myself

I've talked (and written) a lot about my struggle to find a lasting romantic relationship . . . of my struggle to feel worthy of love . ....

Age is just a number

I've been on more first dates in the 3+ years that I've lived in Asheville, then in my entire life up until moving here. And 2 of those 3...

School of relationships

Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1: Bridging the Couple Chasm Certificate of Completion ✅ Sooooo, this might have come in handy...

It’s a match…or was it??

It’s funny how phrases can get stuck in your head…and then take on a life of their own. For example, I’ve had the phrase “It’s a match”...

I’m baaaaaack…and fancy as fuck!

It’s been a hot minute…ok, so it’s been nearly 3 years…since I wrote a post. To say a LOT has happened would be an understatement! I’ve...

Day 218: Nothing but heart

I used to measure my success by the size of my bank account…pairs of shoes in my closet…expensive clothes on my back…number of friends on...

Day 167: Quiet, please

It’s the last thing I see each night and the first thing I see each morning. And the one thought I carry around with me all day....

Day 105: A million ways to say no

No one likes to be told “no”…well, most of us don’t like it. I know there are people who never hear “no”…even when it’s that direct....

Day 103: What we bring to the table

We’re only responsible for our half…for what we bring to the table. So if we belly up with an open heart…pure intentions…an honest...

Day 101: What you think, you become

I’ve crossed the 100 day threshold as I’m crossing the country with Princess Grace, Mama J, and Kilo. We’re heading home after our...

Day 98: Paddle board musings

Today Princess Grace, Kilo, Mama J and I spent the day on paddle boards on Gross Reservoir…which is anything but gross. At a little over...

Day 94: Road tripping

Today I’m road tripping with Princess Grace and Mama J to Boulder. Kilo was supposed to be in the car with us…I mean, we are driving her...