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Dating apps are missing the point—but Bumble’s CEO might be fixing it
We've all felt it - that nagging sense that modern dating is missing something. Swipe fatigue. Endless first dates that go nowhere. Connections that spark but never catch fire. When Bumble CEO Whitney Wolfe Herd recently admitted dating apps "got it all wrong," she wasn't just critiquing algorithms - she was pointing to a profound spiritual truth about love that cardology has understood for ages.
May 153 min read


Healing, Resistance, and the Flow of Life: Navigating Trauma and Growth
Judging your parents? Healing trauma? Finding your flow? Let’s get real about life, spirituality, and standing up for what matters.
Mar 133 min read


Holding divergent emotions
2024 was packed with unexpected twists & turns & turmoil.
Jan 182 min read


It's transparency, baby!
My word for the year is ✨transparency✨. So what does that mean? It means that I will be clear in my words & actions.
Jan 12 min read


Age is just a number
I've been on more first dates in the 3+ years that I've lived in Asheville, then in my entire life up until moving here. And 2 of those 3...
May 25, 20222 min read


My blueprint
As a 6 of Diamonds, one of the lessons I'm here to learn is #balance. And while most who know me might consider me a pretty balanced...
May 5, 20222 min read


It's all in me
This is me. No make up. . . glasses. . . sporting my fave @alldaydarlingasheville tank & my fave #mrrogers sweater. . . sitting in my...
Apr 15, 20222 min read


Home is where the heart is
I did it!! A month-long solo adventure in Tulum, Mexico!! As I sat at the airport reading Wild by Cheryl Strayed, I had to keep reminding...
Feb 18, 20222 min read


School of relationships
Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1: Bridging the Couple Chasm Certificate of Completion ✅ Sooooo, this might have come in handy...
Jan 28, 20221 min read


A new year, a new me
Yesterday was my birthday 🎉 I don't know about you, but 2021 might have been more challenging than 2020. Anything & everything I wasn't...
Jan 22, 20221 min read


The most epic sleeve
Yesterday we continued working on creating "the most epic sleeve", as @mountaintemple likes to say. I've had lots of tattoos over the...
Dec 9, 20212 min read


Broken open
"There are situations in life when you see the value of loss, grief, and a broken heart. Yet it's not the pain or loss itself that must...
Jan 20, 20212 min read


Day 288: Time to get moving
It took till about mid-day to start feeling better. Â I was tempted to lay around again but Mr. Universe insisted we needed to get out of...
Jan 8, 20154 min read


Day 284: New intentions
I was so focused on getting to Hawaii and getting married that the new year slipped right past me. It was the night before the big day so...
Jan 4, 20152 min read


Day 258: Permission to deal
Today, I had lunch with a dear friend that I hadn’t spent quality time with in awhile.  It was lovely to catch up and see how refreshed...
Dec 9, 20144 min read


Day 250: Externally self-motivated
I’ve been quietly beating myself up a lot lately.  I realized this after I confessed to being bored.  For weeks I’ve felt this stirring...
Dec 1, 20143 min read


Day 241: Friendsgiving
Tonight is Friendsgiving….when I get to host my closest confidants from the past year.  As I was thinking about the gathering, I noticed...
Nov 22, 20144 min read


Day 238: A big day
Today was a big day.  I knew it was going to be when I woke up but I wasn’t expecting to have such an unsettling feeling.  I’m pretty...
Nov 19, 20143 min read


Day 230: One leg at a time
When I was first starting out in my career I never quite felt like I fit in. Â I always felt too young or too single or too trendy or too...
Nov 11, 20142 min read


Day 221: Grit
Eli’s mom sent me a Forbes article this morning about women in leadership positions and how when faced with fear (adversity) , they grow...
Nov 2, 20141 min read
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