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Day 79: It’s all about the intention
When my new insurance agent asked me what I saw myself doing in five years, I think my answer surprised both of us. When I first retired...
Jun 13, 20143 min read


Day 78: Waking up
I didn’t know it at the time, but I spent a good chunk of my adult life – till now, actually – moving through life with my eyes closed. I...
Jun 12, 20142 min read


Day 77: I used to rage…and not in the popular sense
I told myself it was because I grew up watching my father behave like that…that I was a result of my environment. I had a built-in...
Jun 11, 20143 min read


Day 76: A sigh of relief…and a boob full of marbles
8:30…They said to shower but to not put any lotions or powders on above the waist. Ok, well, that’s different and isn’t helping to...
Jun 10, 20143 min read


Day 75: It’s official…because Facebook says so
I used to joke that nothing is real until you see it on Facebook. So I guess it’s official then…I’m in a relationship with Mr....
Jun 9, 20144 min read


Day 74: It’s a choice
So we talked about what happened and what was going to happen on Tuesday. She told me that I seemed to be handling it well. What choice...
Jun 8, 20142 min read


Day 73: When the Universe sends you flowers
She kept her composure while she told me what the doctor had said. I didn’t hear her get emotional until she explained why she waited to...
Jun 7, 20142 min read


Day 72: One breath at a time
Yesterday I found a sizable lump in my right breast. I’m not sure I can describe how I felt in the moment. It was surreal. All the...
Jun 6, 20144 min read


Day 71: What happened in the pause
My brain first went to…” This is what you get for all those wasted, unappreciated years. You hurt people so this is payback. We were...
Jun 5, 20142 min read


Day 70: Rediscovering my feminine energy
This morning I watched one of Mastin Kipp’s Daily Love videos. It was about rediscovering your feminine energies. I’ve read several...
Jun 4, 20143 min read


Day 69: The shift happened and I stepped into a new life
I had fantasized about how awesome it would be. To have no obligations…no reason to set an alarm…nothing to rush off to. But when...
Jun 3, 20144 min read


Day 68: I am smart
But I’ve done it for years. I’ve made these little contracts with myself…these “I AM….blah, blah, blah…something negative” statements. ...
Jun 2, 20143 min read


Day 67: Take the time to listen
They met him a couple of nights earlier and Mrs. Neighbor thought he was delightful ( I’m sure all the muscles help with his...
Jun 1, 20143 min read


Day 66: Sleeping to dream
A friend asked me what I would do if The Taste got his shit together and reached out to reconnect. Specifically the question was in...
May 31, 20144 min read


Day 65: Sailing into unchartered territory
I met a new friend yesterday for coffee and we were sharing life stories of how we’ve used pro/con lists to make many, if not all, major...
May 30, 20142 min read


Day 64: Rock solid
I was fortunate to do a session with a friend present and had the opportunity to listen to her before it was my turn. This extra time,...
May 29, 20145 min read


Day 63: Careful what you ask for
After some further reflection and recent experience, I should probably add a couple of characteristics to my list of what I’m looking for...
May 28, 20142 min read


Day 62: Be good to each other
Whatever the situation, I’ve come to determine that this is the hardest part of dating. You don’t know what the other person is dealing...
May 27, 20143 min read


Day 61: Sitting atop a mound of ruins
It was a great day until it wasn’t…and isn’t that how life seems to go sometimes? Especially when you mix together a little too much...
May 26, 20142 min read


Day 60: My hero
I still see my grandpa through the eyes of a child. He passed unexpectedly when I was 19 but my most vivid memories are probably from...
May 25, 20141 min read
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