The Reign Blog

It's that time again! We are back to straighten own crowns and yours, drawing a single card to illuminate the energies of September 2025. This month, the deck delivered a powerful and grounding message with the Four of Diamonds: Solid Ground. Here’s a glimpse into the wisdom that came through...

Ever wake up in a rage spiral where everything feels stupid—kale chips, customer service, even your own dog? In this episode of One Card Shy, Candy vents about her midnight existential meltdowns, while Laura dives into why we absorb other people’s bad energy (thanks, Indiana State Fair). Then, Laura goes into the Bubble for the real reason behind the mood—spoiler: It’s about living in the future vs. the present—and how to reset with simple joy triggers (dog kisses included). 

In this episode, Laura opens up about her sudden battle with trigger thumb—complete with middle-of-the-night freakouts—while Candy dives into the wild world of perimenopause symptoms (rage, weight gain, and hearing someone chew). What starts as a medical mystery turns into a deep (and hilarious) conversation about supplements, inflammation, and why women deserve a feral-menopause support group.

This month is all about straddling two worlds: -> The external expectations (summer socializing, productivity, "shoulds") -> The internal cravings (rest, authenticity, doing what actually brings you joy). Sound familiar?

Have you ever noticed how certain patterns seem to repeat in your life? Maybe it's digestive issues that flare up during stressful times, or emotional reactions you can't seem to control no matter how much self-work you do. At Reign, we call this phenomenon the "Record Groove Effect" - those deep neural and energetic ruts that keep us cycling through the same experiences.

We've all felt it - that nagging sense that modern dating is missing something. Swipe fatigue. Endless first dates that go nowhere. Connections that spark but never catch fire. When Bumble CEO Whitney Wolfe Herd recently admitted dating apps "got it all wrong," she wasn't just critiquing algorithms - she was pointing to a profound spiritual truth about love that cardology has understood for ages.

Ever notice how your body seems to freak out right before a big life change? Like your left knee suddenly aches for "no reason," or you inexplicably gain weight despite your routine staying the same? In this week’s episode, we’re diving into one of those wait, that’s a thing? moments—where physical discomfort meets cosmic growing pains. Spoiler: Your body might just be the universe’s weirdest (and wisest) messenger.

May’s energy isn’t here to coddle or scold—it’s here to remind you of your power. The 8 of Hearts swept in with a truth we can’t unsee: Healing isn’t a sprint; it’s a rhythm. The bottomline: You are your own healer. Stop outsourcing the job. Let’s dive into your May Crown Straightener.

Let’s talk about something we’ve all experienced but rarely admit: the emotional rollercoaster of shopping with family. Whether it’s your...